Help me to find peace and happiness

by Mavis
(Sprinfield ma usa)

My son and I do not see eye to eye. My son is so lazy all he thinks about is his self and his girlfriend. So much so that he will not find a job that means that he can not spend weekend and days with her doing the week. He is a a full time student and i just can stand all the fighting we do because he is so lazy. He is 20 please try to help me make some decisions on what to do. My heart is breaking